"Can I have a chat before you leave?" I asked as the party in Perth died down. He replied: "Yeah, what about?" Sensing what I was about to say, he hastily added: "No, no, I am not talking to you, I am not talking to you, I am not talking to you." He didn't want to hear the news.
I just said: "Look mate, it's time to retire." He couldn't believe it and was in shock. "What are you talking about?"