If we look around, we will find many people on the street going through enormous upheavals in their personal and professional lives, but they battle it out with smiles on their faces. I have been fortunate enough to be closely associated with some such players who have stood up to hardships, both personal and professional, and have shown immense resilience in overcoming their challenges.
Sachin Tendulkar’s hundred in a 1999 World Cup match after returning from his father’s funeral, and Anil Kumble’s turning out to bowl with a broken jaw in Antigua have been inspiring and well-documented. But here, I would like to elaborate on how three domestic players have displayed rare courage, and are still doing a good job for their sides. They are my team-mates: JP Yadav, Santosh Saxena and Kulamani Parida.
We have all read about how Lance Armstrong won his battle against cancer before he conquered the cycling summit. But very few know that Yadav was diagnosed with a tumour in the area above his heart around the year 2000. He was referred to a cancer hospital in Mumbai by his doctors in Bhopal, where he underwent three cycles of chemotherapy. During this period he had to suffer all the after-effects and hardships of chemotherapy. He lost nearly 15 kgs, and was advised to stay away from the cricket field for one-and-a-half years even if the tumour didn’t recur.
Yadav was lucky that the tumour didn’t recur, but such was his love for the game that despite medical advice he went with the Madhya Pradesh Ranji team for the Wills Trophy within 30 days of completing his third cycle of chemotherapy. He did pretty well in that tournament, and showed remarkable consistency that was rewarded with a spot in the national squad. He has been one of the top-quality allrounders on the domestic circuit having scored over 7000 runs and taken over 250 wickets.
If this was a case of life-threatening disease, Parida’s is of fulfilling responsibilities of a household from a very early age. Parida’s father was, in his prime, a well-to-do fisherman, but he gradually squandered his wealth in gambling, and he could never come out of the mental and financial turmoil.
Parida’s mother then did some petty jobs to support the family of four daughters and two sons. When Parida was studying in standard seven, he was already selling eatables or working as a mechanic in his colony to support the family.
He started playing cricket in a local club in Cuttack’s fishermen colony as a wicketkeeper-batsman. His big offspinners were accidentally discovered by a local coach. However, it was his cousin Kusha Sahu who supported his cricketing ambitions. He got employed in the Railways as a helper, and had to walk three kms each way to oil the railway tracks and signals. Gradually he got picked for Railways Under-19 and has been an outstanding bowler, having taken well over 300 wickets and played at all levels of Indian domestic cricket.
He has single-handedly funded the marriage of all his four sisters, provided for the technical education of his younger brother, and built a three-bedroom house in the same fishermen colony in Cuttack. Kulamani, as his name suggests, has been a precious mani (jewel) for his kula (family).
The third case is of a boy from a similar poor background who had to deal with consecutive deaths of his dear ones, and yet never lost hope in his life. Saxena’s father passed away when he was four years old. He had four brothers, and his mother resorted to selling vegetables by the road in a hand cart. As he grew older, Saxena started helping his mother in selling vegetables after returning from school. This helped his mother to take a break and look after the cooking.
As the years passed, Saxena started playing tennis-ball cricket and his talent was noticed by a club cricketer who then advised him to start practising at MB Union Cricket Club in Mumbai. He was picked by Orient Shipping Group for whom he played on contract basis for two years. He then switched clubs and started playing for New Hind Cricket Club. In one of the club matches, Sanjay Manjrekar was so impressed by his bowling that he fast-tracked him into the Mumbai Ranji side.
Life seemed rosy, but that was not be. Saxena lost three of his brothers to untimely deaths in quick succession around the year 2000. He took all these blows on the chin, and performed well for Mumbai. After having taken a job with Railways, he has been a regular member of the Railways team. Today he supports the family of his deceased brothers and lives in an 850-sq ft apartment in the suburbs in Mumbai.
Steve Waugh wrote in one of his books that in a cricketer he preferred character over a cover-drive. I am sure every team and every player will find similar examples who can be taken as role models in the real sense.
Our ability to challenge our inherent limitations, and then overcoming those challenges through our actions define who we are. Here’s saluting the spirit of such exemplary personalities who have proved that in cricket and in life, character is all important.
Comments
Posted by: Arun at February 19, 2008 3:52 AM
wow..thts touching a raw nerve..
Hats of to such cricketers.
I havent heard much of Santosh Saxena..but the other 2, have heard of quite a lot over the years..about their cricketing abilities that is..
I remember, how parida was referred to as our equivalent of Muralitharan, and could spin as much..as that wizard..
Well...lets hope the 20-20 will be ticket to greatness for such people in our very own backyard..
With the kind of craze and the advertising power that this country has, we can bring the best of world's entertainers here along with our own Entertainers and provide them more opportunities to grow in such conditions..
Posted by: KR Sriram at February 19, 2008 4:00 AM
Great post by Sanjay Bangar. Well worth reading and savouring
Posted by: Ajit Thomas at February 19, 2008 4:08 AM
Sanjay, this is a lovely article. I had never heard of these unheralded heroes. It underscores how cricket means so much to those whose names will never be up in lights but continue to persevere steadfastly. Keep up the good work.
Posted by: nishant arora at February 19, 2008 4:46 AM
fantastic and thought provoking..Sanjay Bangar at his best
Posted by: Sidhaartha at February 19, 2008 4:48 AM
Thanks to Sanjay for bringing out such inspiring stories of our domestic cricketers who play on despite such hardships for just love of the game and committment.
Thanks to cricnfo too, for this regular feature about the domestic circuit.
It is interesting to read actual thoughts and views of someone like Bangar and Mhambrey, as opposed to canned soundbytes and ghostwritten columns.
The contributions of people like Parida, Saxena, JP Yadav have enriched this game that we love as of those titans like Amol Muzumdar and S Sharath who never got the opportunity to show their skills on the international stage.
Posted by: Nadeem S at February 19, 2008 5:35 AM
Brilliant! This article gives us some think to think about in light of the many contreversies that have occured over past year.
Posted by: R.Ramanujam at February 19, 2008 5:40 AM
May a hundred ICL's and IPL's bloom for such doughty fighters..character over cover drive indeed.
Posted by: praveen kumar at February 19, 2008 5:44 AM
Lovely article Sanjay. I'm a keen follower of indian domestic cricket and there are many but unknown stories like that. May be ICL and IPL would do some good to player who live for their passion for this game.
Posted by: Madan at February 19, 2008 5:46 AM
The wealth loaded BCCI should do something for these guys. Atleast Star Players should play some kind of benefit match to renew the HOPE in cricket. thanks Sanjay Bangar for the artcile.
Posted by: Manik Wadhwa at February 19, 2008 5:46 AM
Man ..... hats off to such a marvelous souls and thanks to sanjay for bringing this up otherwise we would have never known abt the hard-working and blessed souls in Indian cricket who are sometimes overshadowed by demigods we create in our soceity.
Kudos to the true Heroes !!!!
Posted by: tulasinath at February 19, 2008 5:47 AM
This is an excellent article. Everyone loves to write about the Sachin's and the DHoni's of the world. But to read something about these three unsung heroes was heart warming
Posted by: Srinivas at February 19, 2008 5:47 AM
Great article.Its really inspiring to read the stories of our unsung heros.players like MV Sridhar, Amol Majumdar, JP yadav have proved themselves at national level, but never got enough oppurtunities to play to the country.Its nice that players like bangar have thrown some light on our domestic cricketers ...
Posted by: Srini at February 19, 2008 5:47 AM
I remember once having been at the New Delhi Railway Station (receiving a set of delegates for a conference in New Delhi from across the world). Just when I helped the visitors alight a travel-bus, we heard a band playing close by. The band was celebrating the Ranji Trophy win by the Railways team and Bangar was leading his squad out of the station. I went near to Bangar and told him that as a Ranji follower for years, I was proud of the victory by the unsung Railways squad. Bangar was flush with pride and after shaking hands went on forward. The sheer unassuming, down to earth look to this ambience was in stark contrast to the brouhaha and elitist nature of the Indian cricket team's reception after its 20-20 victory. Not putting these things as contrasts though, the scene was worth remembering just for the simplicity. This article by the cricketing Buddha, Bangar only accentuates that memory of mine. Thanks, Sanjay!
Posted by: venkat at February 19, 2008 5:47 AM
Thanks Sanjay, indeed brings the qualities these above mentioned guys. As Arun pointed out hope these guys make it to ICL or IPL ( May be they have already, iam not aware)which would be a platform where they could show their class.
Posted by: ajit at February 19, 2008 5:49 AM
very inspiring stuff.. love waugh's comment on character over a cover drive. think that in our country we get carried away with the hype surrounding cricket that we rarely get to see this side of the sport. talent may carry you for a season, but character lasts a lifetime! thanks sanjay. all the best with baroda..
Posted by: Santanu at February 19, 2008 5:50 AM
This can easily slip into "Chicken soup" series.Hats off Sanjay . This also shows your character . I was a great admirer of you and was ecstattic when u earned india Cap.Alas , your main trait "patience" didn't pay off. Alas u didn't hit 4-s and 6-s every second ball. But what stopped us to continue u in Test cricket . Pity !!!!!!
Posted by: shantanu bhowal at February 19, 2008 5:52 AM
Bravo guys! You are the true heros who faced every thing but your passion for cricket never died. You guys are diffrent and possess rare skills. Everyone is not tough as you are. Hope you will play for India at international level.
Posted by: Wilson Hayes at February 19, 2008 5:53 AM
Sanjay, that was a great and thought provoking article. One only wishes that these players with such indefatigable characters had shone for India. It would have been poetic justice. But they ar still an inspiration for orhers not only in cricket but all walks of life. And kudos to Cricinfo for facilitating such wonderful articles.
Posted by: karun at February 19, 2008 5:53 AM
Sanjay,
A real inspiring story for guys looking out for consolation in all walks of life. Infact, much more inspirational and positive than some of those high-end books from US authors. Do write Sanjay. Be assured, we will be sending such sublime stories to a few who are worth it ----
Posted by: Rakesh Supkar at February 19, 2008 5:55 AM
Gem of an article... heart warming to read about such cricketing characters. So enamoured by the glitz of international cricket, we tend to forget the domestic cricket heroes. thanks to Sanjay I got to hear about the heroic contributions of these individuals to the game of cricket and also to their families. thanks to such peope that the game is alive and kicking... but for this base of such show of character by domestic cricketers, indian cricket would crumble in its own weight of glamour and fancy...
I had read an earlier article by Sanjay on problems faced by the cricketers on the bench and not on the field. Hats off to Sanjay for bringing out such original thought provoking articles. I also remember Sanjay's role in the series against England and West Indies - he himself was a cricketer with some character...
Posted by: Thomas Mathews at February 19, 2008 5:56 AM
This is truely a heart warming article written. There are so many more such stories about how people with their hard work and single minded foucs have over come many of the hard ships.
Truely inspiring stuff
Posted by: syam krishnan at February 19, 2008 5:57 AM
i have 'nt read the autobiography of Lance Armstrong yet.But if it is better than this i would definitely try that out.Its so good to know the passion for the game still lives on.One of the best articles i hv ever read. 10 on 10 fr this!!
Posted by: Pradeep Nair at February 19, 2008 5:57 AM
Great Article Sanjay. Time we salute such unheralded heroes. I just hope that the new Leagues give the much needed exposure and financial support to such heroes.
Posted by: Krish subramanian at February 19, 2008 5:57 AM
Sanjay, terrific article. As some one mentioned, it touched the nerve...Character defines who you are...and tough situations brings the best out of us. Inspiring story for everyone who has ambitions in life..Love of cricket beats everything...wonderful!!!!
Posted by: Paul at February 19, 2008 5:58 AM
Love to see these columns by you, good for the intiative cricinfo has taken for such a novel gesture and getting every1 or ratehr atleast thsoe who have the intention to read such stories of our not so famous domestic circuits..
People from those circuits only come to the limelight when they are in the Indian team or in news for the wrong reasons!
Please hush in such wonderful eye openers and insights into places where normally there doesn't go any audience!
Cricinfo please keep those links coming in the scoreboards, as was done now.
When can teh people be able to see doemstic live matches on tv, with good commentary!
Posted by: Austin at February 19, 2008 5:59 AM
Thanks to Sanjay for sharing with us the Insight of our Domestic Cricketing world . Yes the IPL 20 - 20 will be a good platform for the unsung heros to show case their talent & get some exposure & they should & im sure will make the best use of the given oppurtunity . Its will also mean the best of INDIAN CRICKET is yet to come .
Cheers ,
Posted by: RK Bethi at February 19, 2008 5:59 AM
It was nice of Bangar to bring out such real life stories of the cricketers. They have shown the courage and responsibility in order to enable the future generations to live more amply, with greater vision, with a finer spirit of hope and achievement. They have shown us that obstacles are those frightful things we see when we take our eyes off the goals. Hats off guys!!!!!
Posted by: Utpal at February 19, 2008 6:01 AM
I remember reading a story by Sunil Gavaskar about Mr. Sanjay Bangar. He had mentioned a parallel of 'Eklavya' from the Mahabharata and his discipline and devotion to his master, Dronacharya...the parallel was Sanjay treating Sunny as his master...That was a tale of character which I had loved as much as his test hundred against Zimbabwe. It is apt for a person with character to spell out a tale of character he sees in others...
Three cheers to all people involved in this article including the writer!
Posted by: shrikant shetty at February 19, 2008 6:02 AM
hey tats somethin inspiring...this was indeed thought provokin..there have been greats like ajay sharma, conor williams who could not carve a niche for themselves on the international field but have ruled the domestic circuit...lets hope Parida gets a chance
Posted by: r.rajesh at February 19, 2008 6:11 AM
Interesting. I remember Parida aa a big turner of the ball who had a large heart, from the time he played 4 orissa. I know he was in the consideration set and had a solid backer in Ganguly, but it was not to be. Btw, i've heard a lot of stories about you, urself. Why dont u tell all someday?
Posted by: krihnamurthy kerur at February 19, 2008 6:12 AM
Very inspiring article for cricket lovers. BCCI
need to unearth such stuff characters of cricketers and promote them.I hope many more such talents might be looking to someone like sanjay Bangar to come into limelight.
Posted by: kalidas at February 19, 2008 6:19 AM
wonderful article. Thank you for sharing same with us. It must give new hope to many who think they have reached a dead end in life.
BTW I am yet to figure out why you were dropped from the national side even after performing pretty well as an all rounder. Was it politics?
Posted by: Barun at February 19, 2008 7:08 AM
Sanjay- being in HK, have fond memories of your exploits in 2006 cricket 6's (only one we won!). Thanks for sharing these inspiring stories. Just leaves me wondering there must be SO many people fighting the odds every day and coming out on tops. Or those whom nobody is noticing (like Saxena's mother) but are fighting it out everyday- Hats off to them.
Posted by: Ananthanarayanan at February 19, 2008 8:11 AM
Its really a fantastic article. Thanks Sanjay for a astute and well written article. These stories are really inspiring. I hope these three guys will be rewarded well by IPL .
Posted by: anand yalvigi at February 19, 2008 1:17 PM
Sanjay, Fantastic article on the heroes of Indian Cricket. I am sure it must be inspiring for many as it has been for me. Hope this article is circulated by Cricinfo to many young up and coming cricketers in India !.. cheers keep us providing such fantastic insights to Indian Cricket.
Posted by: Samy at February 19, 2008 4:16 PM
That was an excellent article Sanjay. You have done a terrific job to highlight the stories of of your team-mates. That JP Yadav went on to play for India after such a major disease speaks a great deal about his determination and ability. I was not aware of Parida, but I had read about Saxena in a magazine article a few years ago. He was a promising pacer then but too bad he could not play for India. I hope these players get into the IPL, but I'm afraid the BCCI won't forgive Yadav easily after he tried his luck in the ICL.
Anyway, I hope this article inspires young sportspersons and teaches them how to face the challenges of life bravely.
BTW Sanjay, I just saw the highlights of the match against the West Indies in 2002 where you scored a fifty to help India win in the famous run-chase at Ahemedabad...you really deserved more chances after that.
Posted by: kash at February 19, 2008 6:00 PM
wonderful article sanju, felt very touched. Keep it up! No wonder why everybody is so fond of you. Never seen a human being like you. God bless you.
Posted by: Suchit at February 19, 2008 9:50 PM
Dear Sanjay, You are as concise and compact in your writing as you were in your batting and bowling. The thought provoking articles which you write are just level above the rhetoric of so called high profile writers..please keep on bringing these marvellous and inspiring stories from your long drawn experiences of life and cricket as I am a fan of both.
Posted by: abhimanyu at February 20, 2008 4:01 PM
its really great to hear all thia info..i tribute those real heros..they all really r fighters...n as twas said abvoe jp yadav first class crickets lance armstromg..i agree with it..hes a true fighter an a awesome player..after performing tht much good in 1st class cricket..he dint get enough chance to reprensent indian team..hes da best all rounder v ever had..as da record says..over 7800 runs n more than 270 wickets..i m proud to learn cricket from this man..hes my idol..hes da best..!!hes currently playing in de icl n hes rockin there too...he proving himself agian n again..may god bless him..n heachive all things he wont in his life..!!keep rockin...!!
Posted by: Zaheer at February 21, 2008 2:16 AM
IPL should have helped such players. We read about stories of fancied cricketers but such stories are unheard of. Thanks for the article
Posted by: Gaurav at February 21, 2008 7:26 AM
Sanjay I love reading your posts and this one is right up there and extraordinarily touching. It is stories like these that are far more worth reading than the usual controversies that surround the game these days
Posted by: Samy at February 21, 2008 4:36 PM
Sanjay, how about an article on how the IPL will affect Indian domestic cricket?
Posted by: Anirban Chakravarty at February 21, 2008 9:43 PM
Fantastic article Sanjay. I would like to add another name to these fantastic fighters you wrote about, and that is you. You, too, have character.
Posted by: Kannan at February 22, 2008 3:32 PM
This is simply touching. Does the BCCI care a damm?
Posted by: Ravi at February 22, 2008 9:33 PM
Really heart touching one.. I think BCCI should try to divert the money to cricketers like these than people who already have a plenty through things like IPL. Why dont they come up with a thing like IPL only for domestic players.. Can't we real good people who can entertain us with their quality of cricket.. Hats off to all heroes of Indian cricket.. specially to domestic players.
Posted by: Sidhanta Patnaik at February 23, 2008 12:05 PM
Hey Sanjay,
Cricket and life have so much in common that Steve Waugh's statement just stands out.Being from Orissa and being a serious analyst of the game in the domestic circuit,I always followed Kulia whenever he used to represent his club Union Sportings!Its a great task undertaken by you to bring out such issues into the open.Cricket for many is glamour.But for this glamour to sustain there have been so many sacrifices.This article justifies it.Do write an article on the frustration of players who are born at the wrong time, like Kanwaljeet Singh, S. Sharath, N. Hirwani, K. Goel etc
Posted by: praveen at February 25, 2008 1:52 PM
great article mr.bangar...i am touched by the 3 players...to be up against the wall and fight it out is awesome.
Posted by: Dev at February 25, 2008 5:53 PM
Good and very touchy write up by Sanjay. As far Santosh Saxena is concern, the only player who supported him in Mumbai side was Sanjay Manjrekar. And many didn't know that he at once stage was fastest India bowler. I know 'saxy' which he is called in local maidan for more than a decade and despite been in the prime of his career, he was jobless when he played for three years for Mumbai. And that is why he chose Railways because of job security. Even once the grt Sachin Tendulkar, who was the captain of the Indian team, had said him not to move any state because he will provide him with the job. But the master blaster didn't bothered. And even the MCA officials didn't gave him the proper support.
Now, despite being playing Ranji Trophy, Saxy is also famous for his Tennis ball tournament and he still as fit as current Indian bowler...
Hard Luck, saxena!
Posted by: Paalu Manimaran at February 25, 2008 10:48 PM
Very touching and informative sanjay!
But with IPL around, we can be assured that every talented (reasonably) cricketer's life is going to change forever for good.
People like it or not, cricket is turning out to be a big industry, an industry that is going to leave positive impact on guys like Yadav, Parida and Saxena.
Posted by: manoj chahar at February 26, 2008 10:56 AM
sanjaybhai your articles are always fruitful and one can gain a lot of experiences from them...keep it going and i know of a one such cricketer who is as tough as a rock and that is you!and i know that with your current performances going you would definately be back in the national squad.And if you don't than its poor destiny of Indian cricket hwo would be missing tough cricketers like u....well done again!!!
Posted by: ramkumar, Singapore at February 28, 2008 9:58 AM
what an article. i had always admired Bangar for his qualities as a cricketer and now i have started doing the same for the person he is. these 2 guys Bangar and JP got a very raw deal from the selectors. i feel both are good enough even now to play for India....
story about K Parida is touching. he too came close to getting selected for India but unfortunately missed out... keep writing more articles like this.. reading your articles gives me a feeling of going to a country side and relaxing amidst the tensions of a very busy world... well done Bangar!!!
Posted by: Navin Kumar at April 28, 2008 12:21 PM
Great article, 3 cheers, naa 4 cheers including you for the gr8 character shown.
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Sanjay Bangar has twice been a member of Ranji-winning Railways sides. He has also played 12 Tests and 15 ODIs for India, scoring one Test century and three half-centuries. This is his 15th first-class season.
Paras Mhambrey represented India in two Tests and three ODIs in the mid-nineties. He played for Mumbai, with whom he won the Ranji Trophy five times. He ended up with 284 first-class wickets from 91 matches. After retiring as a player, he coached Bengal to two Ranji finals in a row, and is coaching Baroda this season.
A tall Tamil Nadu offspinner who bowls with a high-arm action and is studying to be an engineer, R Ashwin has some uncanny similarities with S Venkataraghavan, but for the moment the comparison should end there. Ashwin (21) is taking his first steps in Ranji Trophy cricket. Already, though, he's had one strong season, leading the wickets tally for Tamil Nadu with 31 scalps at under 20.
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